Waddup, It’s Amir Diamond.
So it wasn’t until recently that I had a Light Bulb Moment and figured out that it is NOT okay to be cool with your ex. I used to always want to keep some kind of friendship with people that I used to date, but they never wanted to commit to that. Now, I’m aware how that was something that I should have cherished. Being buddy-buddy with someone that you did the “freak-a-leek” with is so wrong in so many ways:
- One person will ALWAYS possess those irrational feelings that when the time is right…ya’ll will end up being the next power couple!
- It leaves too much of a margin for error; If you are ever sexually frustrated or put in a compromising situation, it could end up being a recipe for disaster.
- It could affect your future relationship, causing tension between you and your new boo!
What do ya’ll think though: Is it okay to have a friendship with the person you used to make moan?
