1. Fight For It, Without Arguing 2. Talk, Don’t Yell 3. Make A Plan http://i977.photobucket.com/albums/ae257/feebrezick/GIFS/Planning.gif 4. Don’t React Immediately 6. Communicate 7. Look In The Mirror http://i.imgur.com/gbWCyZx.gif 8. Stay Calm 9. Preempt The Problem 10. Choose Your Words Carefully 11. Seek Help When Necessary